WHY THE MALE SOULMATE KEEPS WITHDRAWING OR BREAKING OFF CONTACT

He does this because, first, he (subconsciously) reacts to the remaining issues and patterns of the female soulmate so that she can recognize her learning tasks and develop further. Second, because the male soulmate also carries hindering patterns within himself. Only when the male soulmate repeatedly withdraws can the female soulmate learn trust and patience. This way, she learns to find her self-worth and remain reserved.

Only when the female soul mate is more trusting, remains reserved, and allows the male soul mate to approach her more, will he approach her more often and stay longer. However, if the female soul mate falls back into her old patterns or develops excessive expectations or a need for love, the male soul mate will withdraw more strongly. This pattern repeats itself until the female soul mate has made progress in some of her learning tasks. Only then can external change take place.