Soulmate FAQ

Here you'll find the most frequently asked questions about soulmates. Click on the question you're interested in to get more information.

If you have any further questions, you can contact me using my contact form or read my books , in which I have described everything about the topic of "soulmates" in detail.

COMMENTS

(Added comments from my old website)

Martina

May 16, 2021

Hi Gabriele, thank you so much for these explanations. I've been in this process for five years now, and I was shocked when I discovered your site a few days ago and realized how accurate everything was. My question is: Is it possible for a soulmate to finish their process sooner? I just spoke to him briefly, and he keeps asking me if I have a boyfriend while he's living with his wife again. So, he apparently wants a friendship with me, but it's absolutely not an option for me. I read that it's one of the learning tasks, but it really isn't possible. Will I be stuck in this process forever? And will he already be finished? I would really appreciate your feedback. Thank you so much in advance. Best, Martina
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Mirijam

03.02.2021

Hello Gabriele. How long can such a final phase (15) last, and how can I be sure that we're actually there? Apart from what's in your book. 😊 Thank you very much and best regards

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Mirna

February 25, 2020

Hello dear Gabriele! ...are these feelings or sensations of male SP, for example, when a tear suddenly flows down the face (female SP) for no reason. For example, you're lying in bed, wanting to sleep, and suddenly a tear flows down your face without you having thought about anything, including him. It happened for no reason. Could it be that the male SP is making you feel his grief? Regards

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Mini

31.10.2019

Hello dear Gabriele! Question: what if the SP doesn't develop even though you, as a female SP, have developed too & the test candidate notices this too & wants more & slowly opens up & makes an effort for you & recognizes our value - sees us as something special. Is this a reflection of our male SP feeling the same way, or is the test candidate there to help the male SP notice the jealousy & then get things going? For example, there's a break in contact with male SPs & things are developing more with the test candidate & he's also willing to give you time because I told him I won't get intimate with him straight away.

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Gabriele Hannemann (Answer)

November 16, 2019

It always depends on the individual situation and the soul's plans. Very often, the test candidate is there to get the male soul mate moving, but not by making him jealous (I advise against that, as that would be a power game). Instead, the male soul mate usually receives a subconscious impulse that he should slowly approach the female soul mate, as otherwise it might be too late at some point. But as I said, it depends on whether the test candidate is also intended for this purpose in the soul plan, because very often they also serve to allow the female soul mate to look at her remaining topics and existing learning tasks if the male soul mate is no longer available. Furthermore, the soul mate could just as easily have been there for the development path, while the test candidate might have been there for a harmonious partnership. This can be different for each female soul mate, as soul plans also vary.

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Hanifs

18.09.2016

I DON'T UNDERSTAND IT
Hello, I met someone who called me every time and wanted to meet up with me and put me on trial. He came to see me three times each time he had excuses and kept a lot from me and each time he told me about his relationships and that he never really loved me but each time he flirted with other women, even with my neighbor. It hurt me so much and he wrote to my girlfriend. I didn't say anything to him, I acted like nothing was wrong, then I didn't see him for 11 months, he wrote every now and then and that was it. When I called him he told me who I was and deleted my number. Then I found out by chance that he was with his ex-girlfriend, whom he had broken up with several times and then got back together. I broke up with him. What I don't understand is that he couldn't forget the past, each time he went after them and checked whether they were in a relationship or not. He doesn't do it weird with me. He doesn't call or write to me or think about me at all, but he's chasing after the two women. My question is, is this my dream man???

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Christa Hemme

April 15, 2015

ASK
Is it actually possible for ds to have a harmonious relationship? Do you know of any, and have you received feedback from them? Regards, Christa

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Mimi

April 12, 2015

SOUL PARTNERSHIP
Hello. I have no idea why I'm writing here. It's an inner voice leading me to do it. It may sound strange. I met a man who I was in a relationship with for a year and then realized it was time to end my broken relationship. The whole story of how we met was strange. I've known what kind of man I wanted since I was 16 and when I was about 32 I met this man. I saw him on TV when I was 19 and thought he wasn't bad, he seemed nice. Then when I was about 27, friends were talking about how they'd been to an event and how this man would be a good match for me. (I didn't know it was him) Later, by chance, I saw him on TV years later and had contact via Facebook... Then nothing for a year or two and when I was 32. I added my two cents to a newspaper article and that's how it all started... I quickly got the feeling, just from our written exchanges, that he was my match. When he noticed this, he kept his distance. Then he got in touch again and we had a good time for a year, but no official relationship. We never argued. It was all so familiar. He also told me that it was strange that he allowed closeness and that the whole thing felt so familiar. At the beginning of this year, I did a regression on myself. I saw him in three pictures. In one picture, he died for me. That was the end of my time as a slave. It felt as if the love of my life had died. In the last picture, I saw his house, where he lives in real life, and we were an old couple. During the time we spent in real life, I showed a lot of patience and understanding. I wanted him to feel that I was there for him and supported him, because I felt that He had suffered great injuries beforehand, but he never spoke about ex-girlfriends. I wrote him a letter which included my feelings, and also said that every time he noticed that I was looking behind the wall, he retreated and felt like escaping. I told him that I would go to the moon with him and that I had never said anything like that before. That I was a real person from the very beginning and that I gave him pure insight into my soul. I also had visions which were connected to him, and it turned out that there was a real connection. The Indian who mediated the healing was an acquaintance in real life who put him in touch with a healer. I also had visions of myself leaving with tears running down my cheeks... Thoughts that I was just a preparation for someone else's happiness or that when I see him, according to the Native American/healer version, I would have trouble hugging him and crying. It was like when he confessed to me that he had contact with this healer and I wanted to put my head on his heart, the closer I got to his heart, the closer the tears came to my eyes. My gut told me to get closer, hug him, break him and the tears flowed during the hug... Towards the end of 2014, I was internally prepared for the distancing to come, which is exactly what happened, and at the beginning of 2015 he was completely confused and came with sentences like, you have everything I actually want, why can't I give you what you deserve. He had fallen in love with another woman who was in a relationship and had three children. He was afraid of my teenage daughter. There was a spark with this woman, but she hadn't left her husband; they just passed each other by. I had a feeling something was coming and I practically dragged the information out of him. And on the day he said that, everyone around me expected me to burst into tears, but I couldn't. I even poured myself a glass of champagne and had the feeling I was winning. Something told me it wasn't over. I'm living my life. I even fulfilled a dream and flew to the Caribbean in January 2015. And I told him I wished him only the best in life and that I would still be there for him. I got in touch when I got back from vacation and said I still have your birthday present which I had sent from abroad. The first time we wanted to meet, the timing didn't work out and last week I asked what the house number was because I wasn't sure whether it was 26 or 28 and he said again that we didn't want to see each other in person. He came to me this week to get the present and then he just said "you know me". He stayed for an hour, his flame wrote to him during that time, I felt it and he suddenly said after my thought, she is writing to me... I thought, ok, now that the present has been handed over, it's time to end it... Our conversations were superficial... But when he left and I hugged him as I said goodbye, I sat on my sofa and said to myself, this contact is not over, he has tasks that he still needs to solve... he will get in touch with you... How can I be so sure about my intuition, I sometimes ask myself, am I just imagining it or am I just talking myself into it... Am I driving myself crazy or is this feeling really right? Sorry that I wrote a novel even though I left certain things out! I've had the feeling for a while now that something good is coming my way in the near future (time is relative)... And that I'm already mentally preparing myself for it... At the moment I'm extremely obsessed with sports on the weekends, and today I asked myself where it all suddenly came from, like an inner voice saying that you should have even more self-love, balance and contentment... I can't be sad about the things that have happened, although I think it's a shame that it turned out the way it did, but something keeps driving me and saying that this isn't the end of your friendship/encounter, that you will still be in contact... He also wrote to me when he was home after my visit that he felt that I was doing well, I just replied that I am at peace with myself. I don't know what it exactly means and whether my intuition and inner voice will prove true and when it will prove true... Is there any way to find that out?

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belle

23.08.2014

CONFUSION 😉
Even though I already own the book and it actually addresses the topics well… I'm still confused because: I've only just realized that the SP really tried to get close to me but the circumstances somehow didn't allow it… then I broke off contact, lost my job etc… I worked for him.. At the moment I'm in a state where I don't know which direction to go, okay, just do it but I just can't get him out of my head… it was all too much for me, that's why I didn't want to anymore (7 years), I have no idea… what can I do? I don't want to get in touch (I have a new number, address etc.) because I think this will backfire but I'll keep waiting… tzzz again, I don't know what I'm supposed to learn, I actually have my life under control and so does he… greetings