What are soul mates and why do they meet?
WHAT ARE SOULMATES AND WHY DO THEY MEET?
Many people often wonder what soul mates actually are. In principle, the answer is quite simple. Soul mates are two people who already know each other from one or more previous lives and who either still have certain learning tasks to master with or through the other, or who still have issues from previous lives to clear up and clarify that were neglected. Many also call them karmic partners, twin souls, twin flames, or dual souls. However, in my opinion, there are only minor differences between these partners, as these terms are human-made. Therefore, I use the generic term "soul mate" on my website, in my books, and in my videos, as I personally prefer not to make a "judgment." The learning tasks are the same for all of these partners, as long as we are still allowed to open up or work on certain hindering patterns, behaviors, and issues. As soon as you notice and feel that this connection is special, stronger, and different from that with previous or other partners, you are probably dealing with a "soul mate."
If the goal of both soul mates is actually a partnership in their soul plan, then it usually takes a long time until they achieve it! While it is often "love at first sight" when both soul mates meet for the first time, unfortunately obstacles and difficulties quickly arise as the connection and progress progresses. Very often, the two soul mates become closer very quickly because the magnetic attraction to one another is so intense that it is difficult to escape. This can lead to the two entering into an intimate affair, which, however, massively prolongs the goal of both soul mates - and can fill the entire relationship with obstacles and difficulties. By jumping into intimacy too quickly, both of their learning tasks then come to a standstill. This causes the female soul mate a lot of trouble - and she often no longer understands the world, because her male soul mate then usually withdraws massively from her or behaves completely contradictory to what he says to her (more about this in my books " Truth Soulmate " or in my " Videos ").
"Please don't let other people convince you that a partnership with your karmic partner, your soul mate, your twin flame, or your dual soul is always the goal. Anyone who claims this hasn't understood anything about the "soul mate process," may still be stuck in this heightened state of expectation themselves, or perhaps wants to keep you dependent so that you seek advice as often as possible!"
Both soul mates have usually never experienced such intense love and such high feelings with another partner. Therefore, the female soul mate ( or the one in the energetic female role ) wants to advance this connection quickly, spend as much time with her soul mate as possible or enter into a partnership with him as quickly as possible. Naturally, the male soul mate (or the one in the energetic male role) senses these excessive expectations and withdraws from her very quickly. Both soul mates have such a strong emotional and spiritual bond that telepathic abilities are often present between the two - and neither can really fool themselves. The feelings and energy of the other are usually perceived very strongly (consciously or subconsciously) and then react to them completely automatically.
Nevertheless, a soul mate encounter is usually about personal and spiritual development. Without getting to know each other through the other, we would progress much more slowly in our development or perhaps not be able to work on certain topics at all because they would not be activated. Thus, both partners usually react very strongly to the other's still hindering patterns and behaviors in order for further development to take place. Because the female soul mate approaches her soul mate intensively, the latter often withdraws. The behavior of the male soul mate is completely normal in this situation, because only when he withdraws from her can the first hidden, hindering patterns, ways of thinking, or behaviors in the female soul mate come to light. This often triggers patterns and emotions in the female soul mate, such as fear of loss, haste, rushing and hurrying, doubt, feelings of inferiority, need for love, and acting too intensely and prematurely. These are all emotions and states that hinder and prolong progress in a soul connection.
However, in order to transform and heal these states, they must be activated and surface or triggered. Therefore, it is normal for soul mates to behave in opposite ways towards one another for a while, because if both behaved the same way towards one another, no further development can take place! Of course, hindering patterns, ways of thinking and behaving are also triggered in the male soul mate, but often only at a later point in time, because the female soul mate has to tackle some of her learning tasks first before the male soul mate can follow suit. The male soul mate is the one who represses and runs away for a while, so it is difficult for him to recognize or tackle learning tasks.
Would you like more information about the learning challenges facing both soulmates, where you both currently stand, how you can most easily approach the existing learning challenges, or roughly what phases both soulmates are going through? Then I recommend my books or a personal consultation. My books describe everything related to the topic of "soul partnerships" from the ground up. In my consultations, I can examine exactly where you both currently stand, what kind of "partners" you are (if that's of interest to you), and what happens next.