WHICH PHASES DOES THE FEMALE SOULMATE GO THROUGH?

The female soul mate usually goes through the following phases:

PHASE 1: ALPHA PHASE (THE BEGINNING)
This is where the female soulmate meets her male soulmate. It's often "love at first sight," and she quickly realizes that she's met someone who will mean a great deal to her life. This encounter is often so intense that it can "knock the ground out from under her feet."

PHASE 2: PINK SOULMATE PHASE
During this phase, she truly realizes who she has met. However, during this phase, she also begins to "place her soul mate on a golden pedestal with a spotlight" and idealize them. Her thoughts revolve around her soul mate all day long, and she goes to bed with him in her mind and wakes up with him in her mind.

PHASE 3: SYNCHRONICITY PHASE
From this phase onward, she begins to notice more and more synchronicities (similarities) between herself and her soul mate. During this phase, she experiences situations or recognizes things that often make her say, "This can't be a coincidence." Very often, this is also when the external "signs" begin to become increasingly apparent to her.

PHASE 4: CRAZY PHASE
At this stage, at the very latest, the male soulmate begins to withdraw from her. She just doesn't understand why he's doing this. Likewise, at this stage, the male soulmate may begin to behave in a way that contradicts what he says to her. This raises more and more doubts in the female soulmate, and she begins to wonder whether she's just imagined it all or is perhaps crazy.

PHASE 5: WAITING ROOM PHASE
From this phase onward, the female soulmate begins to sit in the male soulmate's "waiting room" and wait for him to approach her or until he is ready. However, not much seems to happen, because the male soulmate makes him wait and wait and wait...

PHASE 6: PAIN AND NEED PHASE
This is where the suffering begins for the female soul mate if she still carries old, limiting patterns within her, as these are activated from this phase onwards. Of course, at this point she is usually not yet aware that these are learning tasks and that old, limiting patterns are being activated in order to access them and heal them. Her suffering becomes ever greater and more intense, as she simply wants to experience love with her soul mate, and the soul mate seems to be withdrawing from her more and more or avoiding her. The suffering she feels from this point on can also be compared to "hellish mental anguish", as she becomes more and more dependent for love and her soul mate usually does not reciprocate these strong feelings.

PHASE 7: MADHOUSE PHASE
During this phase, the female soulmate actually feels like she's going "crazy." Because the feelings and energies she senses from her soulmate don't match his behavior.

PHASE 8: REPRESSION PHASE
Because the pain and suffering can be so intense from this stage onwards, or because the entire suffering process has been going on for so long, the female soul mate begins to suppress the love, the feelings, or even the connection to her soul mate to protect herself from further injury. Often, she is "so fed up with the waiting and the behavior of the male soul mate" that from this stage onwards she also often begins to suppress her own learning tasks. Many have already been involved in an intimate affair with their soul mate for some time in this phase and don't even realize that by acting this way they are suppressing their own learning tasks and constantly going around in circles.

PHASE 9: RELAPSE PHASE
During this phase, the female soulmate often begins to relapse into her old and limiting patterns. Doubts intensify, the need for love may reactivate, or she may become intimate with her soulmate again.

PHASE 10: TRUST PHASE
From this phase onward, the female soulmate seems to increasingly understand and address her learning tasks. Everything begins to become easier, and the suffering and pain diminish. Her trust in the universe grows stronger and stronger, and she can let "things" happen much more easily, without interfering too much or influencing them.

PHASE 11: EXAMINATION PHASE
From this phase onward, the female soulmate is repeatedly tested by the universe through various situations. This is where it becomes clear whether she has understood her learning tasks or whether she has fallen behind and will have to repeat some of them. Likewise, from this phase onward, a test candidate is usually sent to her to check whether she has truly understood her learning tasks or whether she will forget them again with other similar partners.

PHASE 12: 180° REVERSAL PHASE
From this phase onward, the behaviors or even the energetic roles of both soul mates can reverse 180°. From this point on, the female soul mate often wonders why she now feels the need to withdraw from her soul mate, and perhaps the soul mate even approaches her more! Very often, she also gets the feeling that she no longer feels as much for her soul mate, or perhaps no longer feels as much love for him. However, this is only an "appearance" and serves to help her get to know the other side—that is, how her male soul mate felt when he was overwhelmed by intense emotions or repressed everything out of fear and thus couldn't allow strong feelings to develop.

PHASE 13: OVERCOME PHASE
During this phase, the female soulmate often feels as if she has overcome everything and that the path of development was merely the destination. However, she will then realize that there is still more to it, and that the goal with her soulmate is still open.

PHASE 14: FRIENDSHIP PHASE
At this stage, at the very latest, it's all about living the friendship level with the male soul mate. However, the female soul mate is usually at the point where she can actually live a friendship with her soul mate, and the desire for a relationship is no longer the main focus.

PHASE 15: OMEGA PHASE
This is the final phase for soulmates. It's only at this point that it becomes increasingly clear whether the partnership with the soulmate is the goal or whether the developmental path was merely the goal. During this phase, your own soul also takes a sort of retrospective and checks whether all previous phases have truly been fully completed. If not, then any remaining remnants of previous phases are closed with a brief reversion.

You can find more information in my book "Truth Soulmate Part 1 - The Phases".