WHAT PHASES DOES THE MALE SOULMATE GO THROUGH?

The male soul mate usually goes through the following phases:

PHASE 1: ALPHA PHASE (THE BEGINNING)
During this phase, both soul mates are still in the same phase, as they are getting to know each other at this point. Everything is still harmonious, as most of the hindering patterns are only triggered later. This phase is a taste of what it can be like in the long run, once both have mastered their learning tasks. For the male soul mate, too, it is often "love at first sight" when he meets his female soul mate.

PHASE 2: FRIENDSHIP PHASE
(Meanwhile, the female soulmate is often in the rosy soulmate phase)
While his female soulmate is on cloud nine, he senses the strong feelings he has for her and from her, but tries to suppress his own feelings so he doesn't have to allow them to express themselves in their full range. He tries to see his soulmate only as a "good friend" so that she doesn't place even higher expectations on him, and he thus doesn't have to make choices and doesn't feel further pressured.

PHASE 3: SYNCHRONICITY PHASE
This phase is usually the same for both soulmates. Both synchronize with each other and increasingly recognize similarities. Many soulmates notice from this phase onward that they have telepathic abilities toward each other or can sense each other's energies and moods.

PHASE 4: WITHDRAWAL PHASE
(In this phase, the female soulmate is often in the madness phase, as he withdraws more and more from her)
During this phase, the male soul mate also often convinces himself that he might be crazy and imagining everything. For these reasons, he often withdraws to gain perspective. Both feel like they're imagining everything or are crazy, but they behave in opposite ways. The encounter with his female soul mate is so unsettling that he has to withdraw for protection and regroup. He also automatically resonates with her still-obstructive patterns, so that they can be triggered in her.

PHASE 5: MADHOUSE PHASE
(In this phase, the female soulmate is usually in the waiting room phase)
While the female soulmate waits for her male soulmate to approach her or contact her, he is usually lost. During this time, it's difficult for him to hide his confusion from his family or those around him. Since his inner transformation has already begun, he finds himself increasingly arguing with his existing partner, as he increasingly notices that his partner is behaving differently. Slowly but surely, it dawns on the male soulmate that he is no longer living the life he wants or dreamed of.

PHASE 6: REPRESSION AND COMMITMENT PHASE
(In this phase, the female soul mate is very often in the suffering and needy phase)
In the previous phase, the male soulmate realized that something was wrong and that he apparently wasn't living the life he'd dreamed of. However, he still tries to convince himself that he's happy and that he made a promise back then. He increasingly avoids contact with his female soulmate and either tries to start a new life with his existing partner or throws himself into work to distract himself from all the stress in his life. Everyone has expectations of him that he doesn't really want to fulfill, but he still fulfills his family obligations and more or less forces himself to be happy, rather than give up everything and risk "playing with fire (his soulmate)."

PHASE 7: ACTION AND INCAPACITY PHASE
(In this phase, the female soul mate is usually in the madhouse phase)
The male soulmate continues to diligently convince himself that he is happy, but this increasingly drains his energy as he deceives himself. He feels increasingly paralyzed, and arguments in his personal life often increase. At this point, his own lies may begin to affect his health, as his soul calls for change and the truth.

PHASE 8: COMPARISON PHASE
(In this phase, the female soul mate is usually in the repression phase)
Since the female soulmate has now somewhat recovered and is slowly but surely tackling her learning challenges, the male soulmate begins to miss his female soulmate more and more. Both soulmates have had little contact recently, and thus the male soulmate is increasingly freeing himself from his fears. He is increasingly shedding his protective shell and giving in to repression. He begins to compare his female soulmate and his current partner more and more in order to figure out what he really wants.

PHASE 9: AWARENESS PHASE
(In this phase, the female soul mate is usually in the relapse phase)
The male soul mate slowly becomes aware that he needs to change something in order to feel better again. From this phase onwards, he often contacts his female soul mate again to find out if he feels better then. Usually, his female soul mate has withdrawn from him more at this point and his anxieties regarding his intense feelings for her have already subsided somewhat. Either he actually breaks up with his existing partner during this time because he can no longer stand his old routine, or he intensively approaches his female soul mate during this time. For these reasons, the female soul mate is also in the relapse phase, as she very often "relapses" if her male soul mate approaches her during this time and she gets involved with him again.

PHASE 10: WORKAHOLIC OR DISTRACTION PHASE
(During this time, the female soul mate is usually in the trust phase)
While the male soulmate distracts himself with work to avoid having to make a choice, the female soulmate is usually already at the point where she has trusted him. Often, during this time, the male soulmate begins to get involved with other women or meet a candidate for an exam. He is subconsciously searching for proof that something like what he experienced with his female soulmate must happen again. Since he doesn't find it again in this form, he can understand that his female soulmate must truly be a special connection.

PHASE 11: EXAMINATION PHASE
This phase is often synchronized for both soulmates. However, it's possible that both experience this phase at different times. During this phase, both soulmates are often tested by other partners (test candidates) to determine whether they have understood and are able to implement their learning tasks.

PHASE 12: 180° REVERSAL PHASE
Both soulmates experience this phase equally. The primary karma balancing process takes place during this phase, as both soulmates can only find harmony with each other once all hindering and negative karma has been eliminated. Both sides often change during this phase, meaning that both partners often adopt their ways of thinking and acting from the other in order to experience the other side for themselves and thus develop understanding for the other.

PHASE 13: PAIN AND NEED PHASE
(In this phase, the female soul mate is often in the recovery phase)
During this phase, the female soul mate believes she has overcome everything, while the male soul mate increasingly recognizes the connection to his female soul mate. During this phase, too, he may break up with his existing partner or become needy of love himself or no longer receive affection from his partner, in order to experience for himself how the female soul mate felt about him back then. Only then can he develop understanding, because he is experiencing it himself. The male soul mate either actually experiences this through his female soul mate, who is now withdrawing from him more and more or no longer wants anything to do with him, or he experiences it through his existing partner, perhaps through his exam candidate.

PHASE 14: SNAIL SHELL PHASE
(In this phase, the female soulmate is often in the friendship phase)
Although the male soulmate may already be separated from his partner or his old life, he still tries to deal with everything on his own and withdraws from everyone. Everything becomes too much for him, and he seeks peace. He tries to take everything as it comes and find himself again. This is, so to speak, the initial aggravation before the great healing, hence the withdrawal and the slow progress.

PHASE 15: OMEGA PHASE OR ACTION AND APPROVAL PHASE
Both soul mates are now in the Omega phase. This is when it becomes clear whether the partnership with the female soul mate is the goal or whether it was just the path of development. If it was just the path of development, then the soul mate usually did not separate from their partner and was able to improve the relationship, or they separated and are now massively and rapidly beginning to approach their female soul mate. This can even happen so quickly that the female soul mate feels "like she's in the wrong movie," as she hasn't been used to this behavior from her male soul mate for years. Either both soul mates enter into a partnership during or after this phase, or they remain good friends if the path of development was the goal.

You can find more information in my book "Truth Soulmate Part 1 - The Phases".